2.Howtounderstandandrespondtotherapepartoftheclientduringcounseling?Iwascuriousabouttherape.It

seemedthatthebosswasirritatedbytheclient,andthatthebossfeltthatsheappearedobedientbutherinsidewasalienated.Howtoconfirmherrelationshipwiththeformerbossaftertherape?Ithinktherecannotbefurthercontactwithherex-boss.Thisrelationshipwasalsoabusedfromthepatientsside,whenshehadsexualcontactwithhimincontrasttoherinnerfeelings!Sosheabusedherselfalsoinordertogetsomeadvantagesinherprofessionallife.Soitwillbenecessarytomakethecuthere,andIamnotsurewhethershecancontinueherjobinthiscompany,asthenewbossseemstobedeepconnectedtotheformerbossandoffender!我想不能再和她的前老板联系了。这段关系从患者角度讲是虐待性的，当她与他发生性接触时，与她内心的感受形成了反差！因此，她也虐待自己，以便在职业生活中获得一些优势。所以有必要在这里斩断关系，我不确定她能否继续在这家公司工作，因为新老板似乎与前老板和罪犯有着深厚的联系！3.Themoodofclientoftenfluctuatesviolently;shetendstobedepressedandblue.Herboundariesoffeelingsarenotclear,herrelationshipisfulloffractures,andhergenderorientationisalsoconfused.Isitpossiblethatshehasborderlinepersonalitytraitsintermsofpersonality?OfCourseshehasaverydeepdisturbanceofheridentityanddevelopmentandshehasverylowselfesteem,abuses

herselfismanipulatingandhassmallmentalization.Allisveryconcrete.Ithinkherbasicrelationshipstoherprimaryobjects(fatherandmother)wereextremelyfragileandtheprimaryloveoffatherandmothernotverydeep当然，她对自己的身份和发展有很深的干扰，她自尊心很低，虐待自己，心理化程度很低。一切都很具体。我认为她与主要客体（父亲和母亲）的基本关系是极其脆弱的，父亲和母亲的原始客体爱并不是很深。